Chinese proverb of the week – 5

lǎo pó shì bié rén de liàng


Your neighbour’s wife looks prettier than your own.

Chinese painting - two women

Or, as we would say ‘The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence’.

I know some people who are always comparing their lot in life unfavourably with that of others, and it is such a pointless exercise and extremely dispiriting to boot.

A London friend always amuses me when we eat at a restaurant together.  Everyone peruses the menu, ums and ahs about what to order and then makes a decision. When the food arrives, this particular friend looks round at what everyone else has on their plates and a barely disguised look of irritation crosses his face as he decides our choices look better than his…he then offers to swap plates with anyone who “doesn’t like what they’ve ordered” when the truth is that the only one who is discontent is himself, and usually his food is delicious anyway.

About herschelian

Started my 60s by moving to China with my DH. Surprised to find I am still here in Beijing eight years later - still finding it an adventure!
This entry was posted in Chinese Proverbs and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

4 Responses to Chinese proverb of the week – 5

  1. Hari Qhuang says:

    In our local Chinese community, we say “the neighbor’s rice always smells better”. 🙂

  2. Jennie says:

    I really love this entire Chinese proverb series – and the beautiful illustrations you use to accompany it . It highlights simalarities between such different cultures.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s